Don't Recruit Your Ex For Fights
(Miss Jay)
Moments in relationship drama, having a disagreement with your mate about an ex should NEVER prompt you to call the ex and have them vouch for you!!! Have you lost your FREAKIN mind?! That ONLY ADDS fuel to the fire!!!! So people I suggest that you keep your relationship issues between you and your mate or find yourself in an unnecessary HEATED argument.
- Miss Jay
Now For The Male Response.......
Yeah I definitely agree that you shouldn't recruit an ex to help fight your current battles concerning your relationship, that looks kinda..... "I'mma-go-back-and-cheat-on-you-later-ish". If you and your ex can team up to argue against your new partner then you might as well get back with your ex if you ask me. Although I agree that you may want to keep your ex out of the battles you have with your new situation, I do think it's sometimes healthy to discuss "certain" problems that are going on in your relationship with a very close 3rd party member (like a BFF or in my case, a very trusted cousin). Something like that.
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